Check out this article calling select sports (particularly for kids under 10) an epidemic in youth sports.
I whole-heartedly agree – for me, the key reason is for families to have time to be families. Now, this is mostly a school sport issue and not specifically a youth recreational sports one, but they’re related.
For too many young people and their families, a summer trip – historically an annual family affair – now may come at a price for the young athlete. Often, the coaches will question a young athlete’s commitment to the team if they miss summer activities. Think about that for a minute; a teen ager – and the parents who want their son or daughter to have every opportunity on the high school team – has to deliberately forego vacation time with family in order to stay out of the coach’s dog house.
A friend of mine had to weigh the potential impact of taking his son to a college football camp, which would have meant his son would miss a ‘voluntary’ workout with his high school team. This wasn’t even a vacation (although surely the father and son would have had some real quality time together); it was missing a ‘voluntary football team workout’ to attend a college football camp. Fearing that his son might lose his place on the depth chart, my friend didn’t take his son to the camp.
It’s not just summers, either. For my boys, spring break was another test of their ‘commitment to the program’. As high school baseball players, they were expected to be in town for mandatory practices and even games! A week during the school year intended for student (and family) R&R was now off limits. No trips scheduled in advance or other vacation arrangements made in case the boys made the team and needed to be available for baseball.
The idea of kids sacrificing to play sports is not bad. They give up their free time and energy after school and sometimes the weekends during the school year. Shouldn’t that be enough? Particularly when the alternative is less time with family over summer break.
Interesting article from NBC sports. Brees’ comments are in line with what I have been saying for a while now:
- Tackle football is facing a crisis and might need ‘saving’ (and I think it is worth saving, by the way)
- Many current and former players have said they wouldn’t let their kids play tackle football
- Flag football is a fantastic alternative to tackle football for athletes before high school
As interesting to me as the article itself are the comments posted in response (scroll to bottom after the article itself). It seemed to me 1 of every 4 or so of them was viruntly against the idea; essentially arguing that flag football is for sissies.
This is a topic that bears more discussion and consideration. I’d love know what you think. Leave a comment and join the conversation.
Great advice from the good folks at League Network about youth sports parents.
- It starts with this: “I’ve always said I would coach only a team of orphans. Why? Because the biggest problem in youth sports is the parents”.
- “I believe biggest role a parent can play is to be a silent source of encouragement”.
- “Attitude, concentration, and effort are three things they can control”. You know I love this quote – he essentially said my Hustle & Attitude pitch…I had been coaching for several years by the time he said it; so I’m guessing I said it first!
- “I know times have changed, but one of the greatest lessons my father taught me was that my coach was always right-even when he was wrong”.
- “There’s never an excuse for a lack of hustle on a baseball field”.
- “Somehow, the more organized sports became, the more they became about the parents and not about the kids”.
- Explaining that some parents were OK leaving a team where they “put less emphasis on winning, refused to dominate other teams, and purposely moved players around in what appeared to be nonsensical lineups”.
- In explaining how parents can reduce the pressure on their kids by being “just a spectator and fan of your child doing something that he loves” instead of being “the world’s best cheerleader”, Matheny says about kids “He has the rest of his life to learn about real pressure and disappointment. Let him have fun”.
Part 2 – A Better Way
- “Our sole desire was and still is to use the arena of youth sports-in our case, baseball-to teach kids the game, encourage them to love it, and set them on a course toward becoming responsible members of society”. WOW!
- On playing multiple positions: “I did push the kids on our youth team to try new positions at least once”, “I do believe kids should start specializing in certain positions at some point, but not until they are well into their teenage years”, and “Please let them play all the positions at the beginning stages of their games, and I’m talking about more than tee ball”.
- Matheny has a chapter where he goes through Hall of Fame basketball coach John Wooden’s maxims, including one of my favorites: “The best competition I have is against myself to become better”.
Part 3 – The Keys to Success; in this part of the book, Matheny goes through his experiences and how they have shaped his youth sports philosophy (fans of the University of Michigan and the St. Louis Cardinals will enjoy these sections)
- Teamwork; “Many coaches don’t leave families any room to enjoy their summers aside from the baseball schedule. Try to remember that these kids have these summer breaks for only a few years”.
- Faith; another thing I appreciate about Matheny is he is a Christian. In this section, he explains that he doesn’t openly evangelize as a youth coach (or Cardinals manager for that matter), but that his faith is important to him and he will never shy away from it.
- Class; “Resign yourself to the fact that by and large the umpiring at the lower levels is going to be bad, and set your team’s expectations accordingly” and “usually bad umpiring is not intentional”.
- Character; on page 182 (of the hardcover version I have), Matheny comments how it seemed that everywhere his team went they heard positive comments about the boys’ “hustle and discipline” and later he explains that it wasn’t about “attracting only the best talent” but “this was all about attitude“. Any questions why I really like his philosophy?
- Toughness; in this chapter Matheny relates his own story dealing with concussions that forced him to retire. Further, he describes the situation “Kids in youth sports think they’re invincible” and “it falls to us adults to do the right thing…to guarantee that nothing close to what happened to me-and so many others-ever happens to a player who has been entrusted to us”. I particularly like the way he puts the last part…players who are entrusted to us.
In this piece from the Orlando Sentinel, George Diaz quotes former Miami Dolphin great Larry Csonka as saying “Kids shouldn’t play tackle football until junior high…” and cites lack of qualified coaches and proper equipment as reasons. The link includes a video of Nick Buoniconti’s son (Buoniconti is another Dolphin legend) talking about the struggles his father is going through after playing football for so many years. The piece also mentions Buoniconti’s other son, Mark, who was paralyzed playing college football.
I continue to recommend flag football for youth prior to high school.
These are all good reasons for Hustle & Attitude coaching clinics. I particularly like #7 – youth sports are supposed to be about providing positive experiences for children.
Another good article from the good folks at the Positive Coaching Alliance (PCA). I think these recommendations are fantastic. I have been sharing the ‘get down on their level physically’ in my clinics. I’m not sure about the recommendation to hold their heads, though. I would be careful about that one. I’d also add that the coach should work hard to learn the players’ names as soon as possible. It makes a difference when a coach refers to the child by name as opposed to ‘buddy’ or ‘little guy’.
Sports specialization in youth sports is a hot topic. I came across an article in USA Today’s High School Sports section highlighting that 30 of the 32 first round picks in the last week’s NFL draft played multiple sports in high school. While reading the article, there were links to two others on the subject. One that presented the data from an NCAA survey of over 21,000 Division I, II, and III athletes. The other presented results from research that indicated that single sport athletes were twice as likely to suffer a lower-body injury than multi-sport athletes. What does the Hustle & Attitude philosophy say about the subject.
What do Hustle & Attitude parents and coaches do with respect to sports specialization?
Recall that the Hustle & Attitude (H&A) philosophy is a youth recreational sports philosophy. This implies that it is not conducive to sports specialization in that the typical specialization scenario – at least in the team sports like baseball, basketball, soccer, lacrosse, etc. – is that the child plays for the local (often school-affiliated) team in season and then for a travel or select team in the off-season. This often makes for a year-round commitment to the sport. [As an aside, my friend’s son – and his family – have worked hard to play school and select soccer and school and select baseball leading up to and all through high school. In a sense, he ‘specialized’ in two sports!] Given the typical scenario, H&A parents and coaches wouldn’t have the choice about specialization because they would be involved in rec leagues.
In light of the benefits of playing multiple sports espoused in the “Few Surprises” article:
- Less potential for burnout
- Accumulating cross sport skills, and
- Reducing overuse injuries – think pitchers in baseball, see John Smoltz’s recommendation – or injuries at all as the University of Wisconsin School of Medicine and Public Health study indicates)
It would seem playing in rec leagues (or finding corresponding in-season and off-season sports like my friend’s son did) would be recommended. [Although, truth in advertising, my friend’s son did have Tommy John surgery to repair his elbow during his junior year at the age of 17.] The core of the H&A philosophy is to provide positive youth recreational sports experiences for our children. Although many H&A families wouldn’t be faced with the question because their child wouldn’t be playing on a travel or select team, I could see, and indeed have seen, children and families that have had positive experiences while specializing in one sport. [To close these parenthetical asides about my friend and his son; I don’t think he or his parents regret ‘specializing’ in soccer and baseball for the last 6-7 years, even considering the Tommy John surgery.]
So long as the child is having a positive experience, perhaps specialization is OK. However, my personal belief is that playing more sports is beneficial to the development of our kids.
I need to get on a little rant here (anyone remember Dennis Miller’s show on HBO?)…
We need to stop using college and professional football players as our examples of why kids don’t need to specialize in sports in order to succeed (where the general public definition of success is getting a scholarship). The USA Today articles highlight the NFL draft picks and how Ohio State football coach Urban Meyer has repeatedly said he only recruits multi-sport athletes. Well, duh! It should not come as a surprise to anyone that college-level football players played multiple sports in high school. To make it to the collegiate level in football, the young men were obviously very athletic. Unlike the sports I mentioned above in the specialization scenarios, there is no travel or select football. I know, I know, if you’re reading this in Texas or Alabama, you’re thinking “There ain’t no offseason for football, yankee!” First of all, I apologize for the gross generalization of how folks from Texas or Alabama talk. Also, I’m from Arizona and a Red Sox fan, so I’m not a Yankee. Anyway, I agree there are spring drills, and 7-on-7 and passing leagues in the spring/summer. However, think about it; even with the offseason football activities, there is ample time for these high-caliber athletes to play other sports competitively. As the data in the USA Today article indicates, track and field and basketball are high on the list of sports football players also play. And based on my high school experience and watching my boys’ classmates, I would suggest wrestling is also a natural sport that football players gravitate towards as it is very complimentary of the skills, strength, and endurance required in football.
Let’s stop touting football players as our example of why children shouldn’t specialize in a single sport. The general concern is not that football players specialize – again, they kind of can’t – it’s the travel and select baseball, basketball, soccer, and lacrosse leagues that offer our kids the opportunity (challenge?) to play one sport year round. I appreciate the message. I agree that children shouldn’t feel the need to specialize – certainly before high school. However, we need examples of baseball, basketball, and/or soccer players who benefited from playing multiple sports. Stop with the football examples.
Country singer Kenny Chesney is a big football fan. You may have seen him hanging with Peyton Manning (see the picture of Manning giving Chesney a Country Music Award last November).
And that’s him getting a hug from New England Patriots owner Robert Kraft in the Patriots box during Super Bowl XLI. He reflected his love for the game in song with ‘Boys of Fall’ (written by Casey Beathard and Dave Turnbull) off his Hemingway’s Whiskey album released in 2010 (here’s the story behind the song and the video). His latest album Cosmic Hallelujah includes a touching song that pays tribute to coaches – one Chesney cowrote with Beathard. Here are the lyrics: